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What Kelly Clarkson and Taylor Swift Do Differently for Their Tour Crews

There are moments on the road that stay with you, not because of the size of the paycheck or the scale of the show, but because someone took the time to see you.

The tours I remember most aren’t the ones with the biggest production or the longest runs. They’re the ones where I felt respected. Where the work wasn’t invisible. Where the sacrifice wasn’t assumed. On a Kelly Clarkson tour, we didn’t interact much directly. She was busy. We were busy. But every time she walked past us during load-out, often in a hurry, she called us by name. I still don’t know how she remembered. But she did. And that mattered. In an environment where people are often reduced to roles, positions, or departments, hearing your name reminds you that you’re a person first.

On a TobyMac tour, we didn’t meet him until near the end of the run. When it came time for bonuses, his tour manager walked him around, pointing us out, faces, names, and roles, so he could hand-deliver each bonus himself. It would have been easy for him to sign checks, offer a group thank-you, and move on. Instead, he stopped. He shook our hands. He looked at us and called us by names. The bonus itself wasn’t extravagant, but the money wasn’t the point. What mattered was the intention behind it, the time he took to acknowledge who we were, not just what we did. 

The Dave Matthews Band took a different approach. Yearly bonuses. Consistency. A signal that the people behind the scenes weren’t an afterthought once the lights went down. Different gesture, same message: you matter here.

At a certain point, appreciation becomes expected, not entitlement, but basic acknowledgment. Respect for the reality of what this work requires. Respect for how much people give up to make these shows happen. Because let’s be honest about what we’re doing: we literally give our lives to make these shows happen. We build ninety-plus minutes of an overdose of human connection. Thousands of people pay significant money to stand shoulder to shoulder and feel something together, to be lifted, held, moved. That collective high doesn’t appear out of nowhere. It’s built on the backs of people who wake up in unfamiliar places, miss birthdays and funerals, live without stable schedules, and accept uncertainty as part of the job description.

It’s what keeps many of us doing this.
And then the tour ends.

We go home. The artist goes home too, but with a very different landing. They sleep knowing the next morning doesn’t require figuring out how to pay rent, how long savings will last, or whether the phone will ring again. Crew members go home to silence, to gaps in income, to the strange task of rediscovering who they are when the show stops. That’s the part we don’t talk about enough.

Since COVID, the addition of MusicCares has become a critical resource for people in this industry. For many, it has been a lifeline, help with medical bills, mental health support, and emergency assistance when everything else falls away. Its existence matters. Deeply. But it also forces us to ask an uncomfortable question: how did we get to a place where so many people who power this industry need emergency support just to survive between gigs?

COVID didn’t create the instability. It exposed it. When the work stopped, so did the income. Overnight. No transition. No buffer. No systems designed to support people once the lights went out. MusicCares stepped into a gap that had existed long before the pandemic, and while that help is essential, emergency aid should not be the foundation holding an entire industry together.

At the same time, we’re seeing early signs of what systemic change could look like elsewhere. Ben Affleck and Matt Damon, through their production company, negotiated compensation terms on a recent film that ensured everyone involved, cast and crew, shared in the project’s success. The logic was simple: if a project succeeds, the people who made it possible shouldn’t be left behind once the work ends.

That idea shouldn’t feel radical. But in industries built on short-term contracts and long-term sacrifice, it is.

Recognition on the road feels good, but it also sharpens the contrast when the road disappears. That’s why gestures like bonuses, handwritten notes, or being called by name carry so much weight. They affirm existence, not just output. As another recent example showed, Taylor Swift gathered her crew on “bonus day,” handed out extraordinary bonuses, and wrote handwritten notes, one by one. Months of effort. Personal acknowledgment. 

Decades of organizational psychology back this up: recognition works when it affirms the person, not just the performance. Bonuses say “well done.” Notes, names, and eye contact say “I noticed you.” Effort without acknowledgment erodes engagement. Over time, it erodes identity.

This isn’t about comparison with other forms of service. By no means does this take away from military members, first responders, or others whose sacrifice is publicly recognized. But there is a shared thread: extended time away, physical and emotional strain, missed life events, and a deep sense of responsibility to something larger than yourself. The difference is that for many people in this industry, the sacrifice becomes invisible once the show is over.

So the question becomes bigger than bonuses or emergency funds. How do we create a more consistent, stable environment where recognition isn’t an exception, but part of the system? Where appreciation isn’t dependent on the generosity of a particular artist, tour manager, or production, but built into how this industry functions?

Because not every tour can give bonuses. That’s reality. But respect doesn’t require a massive budget. Systems do. Calling people by name. Acknowledging the toll of the work. Normalizing conversations about life between gigs. Exploring healthcare access, benefits continuity, mental health support, and compensation structures that don’t vanish when the work does.

These aren’t perks. They’re foundations.

This work asks people to live in extremes from periods of intensity, connection, purpose, followed by long stretches of uncertainty. Without systems to support that transition, burnout isn’t a personal failure. It’s an expected outcome. Recognition isn’t just about gratitude. It’s about stability. About building an environment where people don’t have to trade their long-term well-being for short-term brilliance.

Because the shows don’t happen without the people. And the people don’t just disappear when the lights go out.

If there’s one hope in sharing these stories, it’s that more tours, more leaders, and more decision-makers start asking the deeper question, not how do we reward people when things are good, but how do we support their existence when the work stops?

That’s where real respect lives.

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Nicholas Strand is a touring production veteran turned speaker, coach, and founder of Choose Your Attitude®, a premium encouragement brand rooted in resilience and mental performance. With more than 20 years working behind the scenes on global tours, major broadcasts, and large-scale live events, he has lived the emotional highs, burnout cycles, travel fatigue, and identity challenges that often go unspoken in our industry. After navigating profound personal loss and undergoing his own mental health rebuilding process, Nicholas became a certified life coach. Driven by curiosity for how mindset, support systems, and daily habits shape our ability to show up in both work and life. Today, he speaks, coaches, and writes to support the mental well-being of the people who bring the show to life.

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This post was last modified on February 27, 2026 7:54 pm

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Nicholas Strand: Nicholas Strand is a touring production veteran turned speaker, coach, and founder of Choose Your Attitude®, a premium encouragement brand rooted in resilience and mental performance. With more than 20 years working behind the scenes on global tours, major broadcasts, and large-scale live events, he has lived the emotional highs, burnout cycles, travel fatigue, and identity challenges that often go unspoken in our industry. After navigating profound personal loss and undergoing his own mental health rebuilding process, Nicholas became a certified life coach. Driven by curiosity for how mindset, support systems, and daily habits shape our ability to show up in both work and life. Today, he speaks, coaches, and writes to support the mental well-being of the people who bring the show to life.
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